養豬人A Little Pig Farmer

咁"生兒育女"是否"婚姻"嘅new chapter?
 

O yes, an exciting (and exhausting) new chapter!
 

婚姻是愛情的昇華﹐是愛情的結晶品。
有愛情的婚姻叫幸福﹐
有婚姻沒愛情叫盲目。

愛情不在乎能不能遇上最好的人﹔
愛情最重要能遇上一個對自己最好而自己也願意付出所有的人。
 

Hi Pink Lady,
終於見到你留言,真好!
是呀,找著一個彼此願意為對方付出最好的人,是一件幸福無比的事.
你跟獅子王好像也很幸福的樣子^^

博客真的很奇妙,讓住在不到地方,有著不同生活的人,有一個互相認識的平台,分享幸福的小故事.
 

pink lady said "愛情不在乎能不能遇上最好的人﹔
愛情最重要能遇上一個對自己最好而自己也願意付出所有的人。"

but how about you really shame that the best person show up after marriage? Then marriage become a responsibility? Love is suffer...

does God make a mistake in timing when answering the prayer about whether the marriage was the right person?...
 

我都好明白,世界上好少有男人會如此不幸,成世人所遇見的女人都差過自己老婆.女人亦然.

不過好在婚姻不是將老公/老婆用人比較的問題,
而是認定對方為終身伴侶,共同開創更美好生活的夥伴.
就是到老,皮膚不再光滑了,視力衰退了,記憶力差了,腰背也彎了的時候,仍然有人與你相依為命,無條件地不捨不棄.
所以婚姻更重要的是委身commitment.
不是因為無得揀,
而是已經揀選了!

不然,結婚以後,仍然日日擔心對方找來一個更好的跟自己比較,多辛苦!
 

有聽過“撿石頭的故事”嗎﹖
每當小女孩撿到一個會發出溫暖光芒的石頭時﹐
她又想下一個石頭會不會更溫暖呢﹖
所以她拋掉手上的石頭﹐
繼續向前走﹐尋找一顆又一顆更溫暖的石頭。
可是最后所找的石頭都不比上一顆來得更溫暖﹐更漂亮。

貪﹑瞋﹑痴是凡人的天性。
人之所以有貪念﹐就因為不知足。

愛情是選你所愛﹐
婚姻是愛你所選。

能遇上自己最愛的當然是最幸福﹐
沒能遇上對自己最好的也不必遺憾﹐
因為我們可以做到的就是給對方最好的啊﹗
 

Thank you for the quick responses, I like pink lady's story although I am not as "lucky" as the little girl, there is a warmer stone warmer than the "chosen" but coolen stone, also, you can't change the basic character of a stone, can you? that's not fair to any stone.

Can't be mate, but I hope we can keep being good friend in this world and heaven. This life is just a journey going home. I trust God that we will meet again...the time will come...although missing is so suffer...

Thank you pink lady, although I never meet you before, I have a feeling that you can be my friend as well, if we meet in God's perfect timing.
 

“撿石頭的故事”還有下聞的...

最後小女孩不再繼續找石頭了﹐
她握著手上那不怎麼溫暖又暗淡無光的石頭﹐
她對石頭許諾﹕雖然你不是我心目中最好的﹐但我一定會好好的愛惜你﹐直到走到路盡頭﹐也絕不再拋棄你了﹗
從此石頭也在小女孩的愛心磨煉下﹐
愈來愈綻放漂亮& 溫暖的光芒。

這故事是N年前朋友Email給我的﹐
因為覺得很有意思﹐所以印象很深刻。
無論對愛情﹑友情﹑親情﹐
我們都應珍惜現在所擁有的﹐
那麼人類就沒有那麼多遺憾了﹗
不是嗎﹖
 

不過有時我們明白“珍惜”的道理﹐
但對方卻不是很領情﹐
也真的是很泄氣的﹗
匿名者是指這個意思嗎﹖

呵呵﹐我的英文不是很好﹐
我是中文系出身的﹗
所以只會用中文回答﹗
得空請到我的blog坐坐啦﹗
 

Thank you pink lady again. I understand what you mean by "無論對愛情﹑友情﹑親情﹐
我們都應珍惜現在所擁有的", but "珍惜" should include some of your old good friend, right? I don't want to keep making new friends and forgetting old friends.

Sorry I am a bit sad because I did not receive email reply for several days from some friends usually reply quite soon...may be I am too sensitive, could be because of the World Cup and Wemblton?

I hope pink lady you can understand my English, I find it easiler to express in English but I can read chinese without problem. The problem is: I can't type chinese character on a library computer...emm...even if I can, my chinese typing speed is extremely fast: 0-2 words per minute ;)

I did visit your blog, I like the "counter banner" of your little prince and little princess. I literally laugh when I read the conversion of them, very interesting blog, keep it update, I might visit again!
 

Pink lady,
謝謝你的小石頭故事,很有寓意呢^^

匿名者,
不要泄氣啊,要繼續努力呀!
相信你身邊還有很多值得你去用心栽種的關係吧.
而且World Cup也快完了...