Thursday, November 08, 2007
學行
童年的記憶一般都很模糊,但有一個片段我卻非常深刻,就是在我大約5歲的那年,用心地教1歲大的小弟弟學行。
記得那時我是教拿著一個藍色的公仔,走在阿信前頭,吸引他一步一步的走向我。
是的,就只是這樣,拿著一個公仔走在前頭。但千萬別小看了這個過程,對一個5歲的小童而言,可是相當複雜。
首先,要揀一件足以吸引小弟弟跟著我走的玩具。
然後,要拿捏與小弟弟之間的距離。距離太近的話,挑戰性太低,未能給與他足夠空間去掌握平衡身體的竅門。距離太遠的話,挑戰性太高,他會索性放棄,爬過來追我就算了。
最後,要在整個過程進行中,營造歡樂氣氛,鼓勵他繼續努力。
就這樣,用心地教曉了小弟弟走路。
前兩日,我在阿信家中,看著小豬B在學行時,對阿信說:「是我教你行路的喔,你記得嗎?」
「不記得。」
「怎會不記得呀!我記得很清楚呢!」
「真的想不起呢。」
「...不要緊」我感慨地說:「以後走路的時候,想起我這個大哥就行了。」
阿信沒有答我,只是給了我一個古怪的表情。
記得那時我是教拿著一個藍色的公仔,走在阿信前頭,吸引他一步一步的走向我。
是的,就只是這樣,拿著一個公仔走在前頭。但千萬別小看了這個過程,對一個5歲的小童而言,可是相當複雜。
首先,要揀一件足以吸引小弟弟跟著我走的玩具。
然後,要拿捏與小弟弟之間的距離。距離太近的話,挑戰性太低,未能給與他足夠空間去掌握平衡身體的竅門。距離太遠的話,挑戰性太高,他會索性放棄,爬過來追我就算了。
最後,要在整個過程進行中,營造歡樂氣氛,鼓勵他繼續努力。
就這樣,用心地教曉了小弟弟走路。
前兩日,我在阿信家中,看著小豬B在學行時,對阿信說:「是我教你行路的喔,你記得嗎?」
「不記得。」
「怎會不記得呀!我記得很清楚呢!」
「真的想不起呢。」
「...不要緊」我感慨地說:「以後走路的時候,想起我這個大哥就行了。」
阿信沒有答我,只是給了我一個古怪的表情。
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古怪的表情, I wonder what's that mean... :P
but my 5 years elder sister never remind me to remember her for anything she has done for me lor!
but my 5 years elder sister never remind me to remember her for anything she has done for me lor!
hi Edward,
long time no see, your son is already walking! haha.. i turned on the radio today and heard your voice and was thinking about you and Elsie plus Athanasius~~ Missing you guys so i decided to leave you a note here to say hi ^__^
long time no see, your son is already walking! haha.. i turned on the radio today and heard your voice and was thinking about you and Elsie plus Athanasius~~ Missing you guys so i decided to leave you a note here to say hi ^__^
小思語的媽咪,
可能真是大細了...
i dear person :)(: 創見人,
He probably think: 神經病。
But doesn't matter la. He has done a lot for me as well ^^
Solar Flash,
他的表情大概是這樣: f~,~ *
HKGM - 盈盈 (YingYing),
是呀,好勁,好勁!
希望能繼續勁下去啦!
lily,
Haven't seen you for a long time. How are you doing??
You can come to this blog more often ar.
And, of course, we can go out for dinner as well ^_^
天使熊猫,
多謝鼓勵 ^^y
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可能真是大細了...
i dear person :)(: 創見人,
He probably think: 神經病。
But doesn't matter la. He has done a lot for me as well ^^
Solar Flash,
他的表情大概是這樣: f~,~ *
HKGM - 盈盈 (YingYing),
是呀,好勁,好勁!
希望能繼續勁下去啦!
lily,
Haven't seen you for a long time. How are you doing??
You can come to this blog more often ar.
And, of course, we can go out for dinner as well ^_^
天使熊猫,
多謝鼓勵 ^^y
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